Sep 25 2019

Reasons to embrace our humanity


Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from Regional Reporter Coordinator Gustavo Adolfo Aybar.

To cry. To create. To smile. To feel joy, heartache, hope. To love. These are the reasons to celebrate our humanity, the luxury of being alive and experiencing all of life’s miracles: a warm dish to eat, a school fee paid, a helping hand, a soccer ball, or a group of rowdy kids kicking and chasing that ball around a grassy field. A bite of ice cream.

Sometimes I experience humanity as my son’s sadness or joy permeates a room. Other times, it’s in the realities I discover while reading about an Unbound family’s struggle, their faith, their gratitude, their strength. These reminders reveal compassion, kindness. These moments remind me to remain present, to accept people and situations as they are, while still seeking ways to improve matters.

Please pray

Dear Lord, for each of your miracles, fill us with the ability to discern blessing from lesson. Help us to see humanity in each act, each struggling individual and every smiling face. In your name, we pray. Amen.

Sep 18 2019

Praying, learning, becoming family


Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from Outreach Call Representative Shantel Davis.

When my father was younger, he felt encouraged to visit the Sioux Indians in South Dakota. Sometime before that, Chief Lame Deer, the leader of the Rosebud Tribe, had tragically lost his son. The chief was moved by my father’s visit and, in a tribal ceremony, adopted my father into his own family. He called him “Good Voice Eagle” because he always spoke the truth.

The tribe taught my dad a belief in others that carried him through his later career as a police officer. Their way of life opened his eyes to so many simple treasures and values. They truly became family to him. Among his favorite memories are pranks they played on him as he was just “getting his feet wet” in their culture.

Working at Unbound has given me a unique way to share my belief in others. It also allows me to serve in a way that honors my family heritage. Within the Unbound community, we don’t just see potential. We pray for each other, learn each other’s ways and become family.

Please pray

God, our most gracious father, I pray that we all might reach out in solidarity and befriend one another. May we “get our feet wet” in the courageous belief that loving others means not taking ourselves too seriously, but seriously believing in the potential of others. Amen.

Guatemalan mothers.
Sep 11 2019

The sum of God’s love for us

Guatemalan mothers.
Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from intern Marin Brown.

In my Catholic grade school there were many constants, including the singing of “We are Many Parts” at school Masses. While that song rendered many a screech from a pubescent seventh-grader, the scripture it’s drawn from always rings true:

For as in one body we have many parts, and all the parts do not have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ and individually parts of one another. (Romans 12:4-5)

As an intern at Unbound this summer, I’ve gotten to explore different avenues that make a business work, and I’ve learned that they can’t exist without each other. This exemplifies what Paul says.

We see this in the family as well. God works through relationships — mother, father, child. Even within himself, being totally Father, Son and Spirit, he shows us the art of relationship, and that these relationships are greater than the sum of their parts.

At Unbound, we believe that together we accomplish things beyond our own narrow needs. In the words of St. John Paul II, “We are not the sum of our parts, rather we are the sum of God’s love for us.” We accomplish more when we lay down our ego, our pride, ourselves for the sake of many, just as Christ laid down his life for us.

Families participating in Unbound do this every day. In mothers groups they work together. Each mother brings her unique perspective, knowledge and ability. Together, the mothers are the hands working day in and day out, lifting their communities up. They humbly accept their role to bring about a better future for themselves, their children and others around them.

As sponsors, we are also a part of this body. Through our letters we give encouragement and support. We share in the lifting of these communities. We humble ourselves. We’re not in charge, which is liberating. By letting ourselves be just a single part, not fighting over which part we are, not dictating our supremacy or subservience, we allow ourselves to be the Body of Christ.

I want to end with my favorite prayer from St. Ignatius of Loyola. Let us remember that sacrificing all to the Lord allows us to accomplish things beyond our wildest imagination.

Please pray

“Take, Lord, receive all my liberty, my memory, my understanding, my whole will, all that I have and all that I possess. You gave it all to me, Lord; I give it all back to you. Do with it as you will, according to your good pleasure. Give me your love and your grace; for with this I have all that I need.” Amen.

Sponsored elder Carlos from Guatemala.
Sep 4 2019

Listening to our elders

Sponsored elder Carlos from Guatemala.
Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from Writer/Editor Jordan Kimbrell.

Growing up, I loved listening to my grandmother tell stories. When I was a kid she’d tell me fairy tales, and then we’d play dress up and act them out. She had a large, sturdy coffee table that made the perfect stage for my 5-year-old self.

Now that I’m older the stories have changed. Instead of fairy tales I’m hearing stories from her life. She reminisces about times with friends and family, both good and bad. I’ll admit to being short when some of the stories repeat. I’ve gone from the child-like, “Tell it again!” to the impatient adult, “Yes, I’ve heard this already.”

But just like when reading a book for the 10th time (Yes, I’m guilty of that, too!), it’s helpful to view oft-repeated stories not with impatience, but with the chance to glean something new. Maybe in hearing it again we’ll find new meaning, or perhaps the person telling the story has a new insight. Storytelling goes both ways: There is value for the listener and the teller.

When our elders share their stories with us, listening becomes more than just a sign of respect. It’s also an acknowledgment that this person has lived more, seen more and likely has wisdom we don’t yet have.

On a recent trip to Guatemala, I had the chance to meet a sponsored elder named Carlos. When he started telling a story about the city of Antigua’s history, even though I had already heard the story earlier that day, I didn’t stop him and say, “I’ve already heard this.”

I listened.

Grandparents Day is Sept. 8. Let us celebrate it by really thinking about the stories our grandparents have told us. We might learn something if we do.

Please pray

Father in heaven, thank you for giving us natural teachers in our grandparents, with their wealth of experience and hard-won wisdom. Give us patience in how we treat our elders, as we hope younger generations will one day have with us. Open our minds and hearts to new insights from the stories our grandparents and other elders in our lives tell. We ask these in your holy name. Amen.

Aug 28 2019

How do you say it?


Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from Church Relations Director Paco Wertin.

The way we treat one another is the measure of how we are living the Gospel.

In a 1986 pastoral letter, the U.S. Bishops said it like this: “Human personhood must be respected with a reverence that is religious. When we deal with each other, we should do so with the sense of awe that arises in the presence of something holy and sacred. For that is what human beings are: we are created in the image of God.” (Economic Justice for All, #28)

Thomas Merton, the late Trappist monk and spiritual writer, said it like this after having an epiphany on a street corner in Louisville in 1958: “… then it was as if I suddenly saw the secret beauty of their hearts …, the core of their reality, the person that each one is in God’s eyes.” (from Conjectures of a Guilty Bystander)

Unbound says it like this: I believe in you. We work with sponsored members and their families as they walk a path out of poverty as full members in a community of compassion. We believe in one another and recognize the dignity and beauty of each person and how that expresses itself in community.

Here’s how an Unbound social worker and a sponsored child’s family lived it out. The family was grateful to receive eggs as one of the benefits of belonging to the Unbound community, but in conversation, the family and the social worker decided together that it would be better if chickens were the benefit instead.

Chickens, you see, would produce eggs that would both feed the family and be available for selling. It may be a small thing, but that’s how dignity works.

Please pray

Thank you for the beauty, O God, that lies deep within each of us. Help us to love everyone and everything that you love. Help us to know that recognizing the dignity of each opens a door to new possibilities of forging that path out of poverty, a path that emerges from and leads to the depths of our hearts, where you live and reign forever and ever. Amen.

Aug 21 2019

Homecoming


Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from Senior Writer/Editor Larry Livingston.

Quoting a Latin American proverb, Pope Francis once famously said, “You can always add more water to the beans.” What he meant was that you can always find a way to feed one more hungry person, to serve one more soul in need.

There’s always room for more.

The 33 Catholic priests who currently preach on behalf of Unbound have spent their lives in the tireless quest for that “one more soul.” They’ve served as pastors, chaplains, teachers, missionaries and in a variety of other ministries to share the Gospel and act as as the hands and feet of Christ in a world in need.

Today, our priests go the extra mile (usually, the extra frequent flyer mile) to share the invitation to join our community of compassion with members of Catholic parishes across the United States. They celebrate each new individual and family that joins us because they understand that the relationship between a sponsor and a child or elder is a sacred thing, with the power to transform every life it touches.

This week our priests come home to our Kansas City headquarters for their annual preachers conference. We love this time of year. We love having the guys here, sharing fellowship and hearing their stories from the road. We love laughing with them, feeding them, praying with them and blessing them for the journey yet to come.

Sure, when all the preachers are here, it can get a little crowded. But we don’t mind.

After all, there’s always room for more.

Please pray

Thank you, Lord, for honoring the Unbound community with the service of dedicated priests. Bless them with joy and a renewed sense of purpose as they gather. May they know the gratitude and affection we hold for them, and may we do all we can to affirm them in their holy calling of service to the Christ who lives within and among the poor and marginalized of the world. We ask this in your holy name. Amen.

Aug 14 2019

Hearing, trusting, walking and giving


Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from Bilingual Sponsor Services Communication Liaison Benjamin Haley.

On a recent awareness trip to El Salvador, I was moved by the vibrant faith of the people there. It was a great encouragement for me to meet sponsored friends and Unbound staff who have faith in God to move forward, despite the circumstances many of them are facing. These families are dealing with violence from gangs, the aftermath of a war and many other difficulties, but they continue on in the midst of the struggle to improve their lives.

At the beginning of my trip, I found a verse that became a theme for me during my time there and has become a challenge for me to live out since I have returned. “In the morning let me hear of your mercy, for in you I trust. Show me the path I should walk, for I entrust my life to you.” (Psalm 143:8)

This verse speaks of hearing, trusting, walking and giving. I was blessed to see our Unbound family doing those things in El Salvador, and I felt challenged at the same time to do them in my own life.

May we hear and think of God’s mercy, compassion and love. Let us hear of it each day. May God show us the path to walk in our sojourn here, as we walk together and are led by him. Because we have heard and been led, let us trust in the Lord and give our lives to him.

Please pray

Gracious God, open our ears to hear your voice. Lead our feet on your path as we walk with you and in solidarity with others. Fill our lives with your presence and peace as you bless and make use of us. Amen.

Aug 7 2019

The dignity in self-determination


Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from Managing Editor Loretta Shea Kline, with a contribution by Social Media Coordinator Ashley Griffin.

“The right of each person to participate fully in society, to have adequate food and housing, to have the opportunity to get an education and to develop their talents is inherent to each person’s dignity as a child of God.” That passage is from Unbound’s core value on “Dignity of the Person,” and it speaks in part to the human need for self-determination.

Indigenous groups aim to gain recognition of their identities, ways of life, and rights to traditional lands and natural resources, but have historically faced discrimination, the U.N. said in its promotion of International Day of the World’s Indigenous Peoples, observed annually on Aug. 9.

There are an estimated 370 million indigenous people worldwide. While they make up less than 5% of the global population, according to the U.N., they comprise 15% of those with the fewest economic resources. Unbound works with indigenous communities around the world, recognizing their considerable contributions, such as care for the environment and preservation of cultures.

As a member of the Dumagat indigenous community in the Philippines, 66-year-old Remegia didn’t have access to formal education growing up. Now she and her classmates of all ages are learning how to read and write in an integrated literacy program.

On Fridays and Saturdays, Dumagat students gather in an outdoor classroom on their ancestral land, eager to learn. In addition to basic skills, teacher Alona Hungco, 27, a Dumagat member herself as well as an Unbound staffer and former sponsored child, focuses on indigenous peoples’ rights and sustainable development ⁠— issues critical to the future of her community. Through the school, the people are also able to keep their history and language alive.

“It feels good that I am now able to write my name,” Remegia said. “It was like a precious gift for me. I keep on persevering to learn these things because I feel like it will make me complete as a human being.”

Please pray

Lord of all, you gifted us with life and with myriad talents so that we may realize our inherent potential, as individuals, as community members and as members of your human family. Let us glorify you by recognizing our own giftedness and the contributions of our sisters and brothers from every background and corner of the world. We pray this in your holy name. Amen.

Jul 31 2019

Recognizing potential is an act of faith


Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from Outreach Coordinator Clair Paul.

This summer, I’ve been studying the book of Romans. Paul spends time unpacking a lot of heavy stuff for the people of Rome. In Romans 3:23 he reminds us that “all have sinned and are deprived of the glory of God.” That’s a lot to wrestle with, and it can leave you feeling disheartened. No matter what we as humans do, we are all sinners and unworthy of God’s glory. Words like that tend to stick with you and make you stop and think.

Happily, Paul goes on to say in the next verse, “They are justified freely by his grace through the redemption in Christ Jesus” (Romans 3:24). Though we sinners were undeserving, the Lord sacrificed his only son to pay the price for our sins. Through His grace we are made clean and new, redeemed and worthy in the eyes of the Lord.

God knew that all people have potential. We can have faith in him because he first had faith in us. Recognizing the potential of others and doing something to draw it out is just as much an act of faith.

Unbound’s program runs on potential. We believe the capabilities of sponsored persons will show themselves when the right opportunity is provided. Sponsorship isn’t about solving short-term problems, but developing long-term change powered by goal-driven individuals.

One person’s willingness to invest in another through sponsorship is an act of faith that recognizes an individual’s worthiness in their eyes, and well as the eyes of God.

Please pray

Lord, thank you for seeing our potential. Though flawed, we are still redeemed by your eternal grace. Allow us to see the potential in others and help them to grow through our faith in you. Amen.

Jul 24 2019

Seeing what others see


Every week we offer a prayerful reflection from a member of the Unbound community. This week our reflection is from contributing writer and sponsor Maureen Lunn.

Throughout my life I’ve been faced with moments of doubt, in myself, in a life circumstance or in a new venture. In all those moments, I’ve been surrounded by people acting as cheerleaders and supporters — people who believed in me, even if I didn’t believe in myself. Without them, I likely would have never gone to graduate school, become a writer or had the courage to uproot from my Midwestern life to build a new career and community in New Mexico.

I’m thankful as I look back over the years and realize that so many of the steps I’ve taken started with someone saying, “You can do it. I believe in you.” Without those moments, I think my life could’ve been very different.

Belief, though, is not binary. It’s not something we get and then have forever. Rather, it’s a work in progress and often something we need help with. In the Gospel of Mark, we see the father of a boy who was deaf and mute ask Jesus to help him believe.

“‘But if you can do anything, have compassion on us and help us.’ Jesus said to him, ‘”If you can!” Everything is possible to one who has faith.’ Then the boy’s father cried out, ‘I do believe, help my unbelief!'” (Mark 9:22-24)

Sometimes we need others to believe for us, to help us believe. It’s a crucial part of the experience of community, and of the sponsorship relationship in Unbound. When a struggling mother or father knows that someone in another country sees them, cares about them and believes in them, it helps them believe in themselves, too.

Another’s belief is empowering. It helps us see things about ourselves that are often hidden to our own eyes, and to find power we didn’t know we had.

Please pray

Triune God, thank you for empowering us to believe in ourselves, in others and in you. Through your power, we believe. Help us to firm up our belief and to spread your love along the way. Amen.